Rev. Dr. Richard H. Gentzler, Jr.
Tennessee Conference of The United Methodist Church
The material in this resource will provide you with information on how your local congregation can celebrate Older Adult Recognition Day.
May Celebrates Older Americans Month
Every May, The United Methodist Church invites local churches to observe Older Americans Month. Church leaders are invited to provide opportunities during the month of May, whether on a Sunday morning during Worship Services or on other days and times, for recognizing the unique gifts and challenges of older adults.
The theme in 2020 is Make Your Mark. This theme was selected to encourage and celebrate countless contributions that older adults make to our churches and communities. Their time, experience, faith, and talents benefit family, peers, and neighbors every day. Churches, communities, and individuals of all ages are also making their marks. This year’s theme highlights the difference everyone can make – in the lives of older adults, in support of caregivers, and to strengthen communities.
Older Adult Recognition Day
We are facing an unprecedented situation in The United Methodist Church. We are experiencing a demographic revolution, as more of us are living longer, healthier lives. Churches face a powerful opportunity to reimagine the future of our faith communities. So many of us continue to have much to offer as we age — wisdom, experience, ingenuity, creativity, and faith — that we want to make certain our older-adult members are engaged, empowered, and equipped for ministry.
Aging is a natural process of development that includes both losses and gains. Aging, no less than all ages and stages of life, has its own unique challenges. And, as such, aging demands the attention of the entire congregation. How a faith community relates to its older members — recognizing their presence, encouraging their contributions, empowering their ministry, responding to their needs, and providing appropriate opportunities for their service and spiritual growth — is a sign of the church’s witness and faith commitment.
Older adults are transforming what it means to be 60, 70, 80, 90 and even 100 and older. Aging stereotypes of decline, disease, and depression are being replaced with empowering values of independence and active engagement with life and service. However, when older adults see the church directing little interest toward them, they gradually lose their sense of having value and worth, which dampens and diminishes their faith development and their spiritual maturity. Older Adult Recognition Day is an important opportunity to reframe aging and to recognize and honor older members of the congregation.
Congregational affirmation in an age of demographic transition involves reframing aging by recognizing older adults as active participants in contributing to the church’s life and ministry; affirming and challenging older adults, acknowledging both the blessings and losses of later life; learning to appreciate the positive aspects and unique challenges of a “graying” congregation; and inviting, equipping, and empowering older adults to be a vital part of the church.
As a church leader, you play an important role in helping your local congregation prepare for an aging church and society. You are invited to take the lead in helping educate your congregation about the needs and concerns of older adults. The 2019 Older Adult Recognition Day Resource is a valuable beginning and will help you lay the groundwork for a worship service to celebrate Older Adult Sunday.
Worship Service Suggestions
Congregations are invited to conduct a worship service to celebrate Older Adult
Recognition Day, normally held during any Sunday in May, or perhaps on the second Sunday in September (Grandparents’ Day).
The purpose of this worship service is to introduce the congregation to the cause of aging in an effective, inspiring, and informative way. As you plan for a worship service to celebrate Older Adult Recognition Day, involve older people in planning and leading the service. If you have a Sunday school class that is primarily made up of older people, or your church has an active older-adult ministry team, you will want to meet with them for discussion and planning. Here are some ideas that you might consider in your planning:
We recognize that:
- God loves and blesses people of all ages.
- Aging is a natural progression in life.
- Every age and stage of life is full of unique potential.
- Birth, aging, and death are all part of divine providence and are to be regarded and taught as positive values.
- The older-adult population is a diverse group, and no two older adults are exactly alike.
- Older adults, no less than people at every age and stage of life, need to feel valued and respected. They need a life with meaning and purpose.
- Children, youth, adults, and older adults can all learn from one another.
- God calls people of all ages into Christian discipleship.
- We are not only living longer, but people 65 years of age and older are healthier, wealthier, and more active than previous generations of older adults.
- The chronological age of 65 is no longer the benchmark signaling the onset of late life.
- As a result of medical advances, scientific discovery, better health care, nutrition, and job safety, more people are living into older adulthood.
- The experiences of older people bring wisdom and insight to our congregation.
- There are opportunities for all generations within our church to worship, study and learn, work, and play together.
- Mature years bring a special opportunity to redefine our goals.
Scripture for Sermon Ideas:
- Genesis 6:3: Then the Lord said, “My spirit shall not abide in mortals forever, for they are flesh; their days shall be one hundred twenty years.”
- Genesis 12:4: So Abram went, as the Lord had told him; and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he departed from Haran.
- Exodus 7:7: Moses was eighty years old and Aaron was eighty-three when they spoke to Pharaoh.
- Joshua 14:10b-11: And Caleb who said: So here I am today, eighty-five years old! I am still as strong today as the day Moses sent me out; I’m just as vigorous to go out to battle now as I was then (NIV).
- Psalm 71:18: So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to all the generations to come.
- Psalm 92:12, 14: The righteous flourish like the palm tree, and grow like a cedar in Lebanon. In old age they still produce fruit; they are always green and full of sap.
- Proverbs 16:31: Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is gained in a righteous life.
- Proverbs 20:29: The glory of youths is their strength, but the beauty of the aged is their gray hair.
- Luke 2:36-37: There was also a prophet, Anna…She was of a great age, having lived with her husband seven years after marriage, then as a widow to the age of eighty-four. She never left the temple but worshiped there with fasting and prayer night and day.
- John 21:18: Very truly, I tell you, when you were younger, you used to fasten your own belt and to go wherever you wished. But when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will fasten a belt around you and take you where you do not wish to go.
- II Corinthians 4:16: For this reason we never become discouraged. Even though our physical being is gradually decaying, yet our spiritual being is renewed day by day (GNT).
- Ephesians 6:2-3: “Honor your father and mother” – this is the first commandment with a promise: “so that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.”
- I Timothy 5:1, 2: Do not speak harshly to an older man, but speak to him as to a father…to older women as mothers….
Hymns: (The United Methodist Hymnal)
“O For a Thousand Tongues,” 57 “Great Is Thy Faithfulness,” 140
“On Eagle’s Wings,” 143 “Jesus Loves Me,” 191
“My Hope Is Built,” 368 “Blessed Assurance,” 369
“There Is a Balm in Gilead,” 375 “Amazing Grace,” 378
“Lord, I want to be a Christian,” 402 “Every Time I Feel the Spirit,” 404
“I Am Thine, O Lord,” 419 “Be Thou My Vision,” 451
“Trust and Obey,” 467 “Sweet Hour of Prayer,” 496
“The Old Rugged Cross,” 504 “What a Friend We Have in Jesus,” 526
Are You Able? #530 “Blest Be the Tie That Binds,” 557
Prayers: (The United Methodist Hymnal)
- “Serenity Prayer,” 459
- “Prayer to the Holy Spirit,” 329
- “All Saints,” 713
- “The Prayer of Saint Francis,” 481
Psalter Readings: (The United Methodist Hymnal)
- Psalm 23 – page 754
- Psalm 27 – page 758
- Psalm 63 – page 788
- Psalm 71:1-12 – page 794
- Psalm 90 – page 809
- Psalm 92 – pages 811-812
- Psalm 103:1-18 – pages 824-825
- Psalm 105:1-11 – page 828
A Litany on Aging for Church Worship
Leader: Then the Lord said, “My spirit shall not abide in mortals forever, for they are flesh; their days shall be 120 years” (Genesis 6:3).
People: Dear Lord, we do need time to grow.
Leader: Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you (Exodus 20:12).
People: We pray that the long years will be good years.
Leader: The glory of youths is their strength, but the beauty of the aged is their gray hair (Proverbs 20:29).
People: Give us strength and experience.
Leader: Remember the days of old, consider the years long past; ask your father, and he will inform you; your elders, and they will tell you (Deuteronomy 32:7).
People: Remind us to ask, and teach us to listen.
Leader: Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is gained in a righteous life (Proverbs 16:31).
People: Day by day, we strive to be more holy.
Leader: Listen to your father who begot you, and do not despise your mother when she is old (Proverbs 23:22).
People: We are grateful for parents who teach and nurture in love.
Leader: So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to all the generations to come (Psalm 71:18).
People: We love to tell the story of Jesus and his love.
Leader: In old age they still produce fruit; they are always green and full of sap (Psalm 92:14).
People: Yes, we too will soon know and understand God’s gift of growing older; give us wisdom so that we may serve others as we have been served. Amen.
Additional Ideas for Celebrating on Older Adult Recognition Day and at Other Times
As we celebrate Older Adult Recognition Day, reflect on the lives of older adults in your community.
- Who are the older adults in your church and community?
- What are past accomplishments of some of the older adults in your church?
- What are some disappointments and losses that older people in your church have experienced?
- What are some dreams and goals that they hold?
- What are ways your church reaches out to older adults in your community?
The primary characteristic of the older adult population today is diversity. With nationwide mobility throughout their lives, varying life and health experiences, and socioeconomic differences, today’s older adults are more diverse as a group than any other age group within the church. Older-adult ministry must be intentional in its vision and planning as a ministry by, with, and for older adults.
- Arrange a meal to celebrate Older Adult Recognition Day and consider recognizing older members for their faith and service to the church.
- Assign a younger person or family to each older person in your congregation. Ask the individual or family to pray for the older person throughout the week and to write a special note of appreciation to the older adult. They might also invite the older person into their home for a meal or to enjoy some community event together. Invite those people to sit together during the Older Adult Recognition Day Worship Service and/or a Recognition Dinner
- Interview older people in anticipation of Older Adult Recognition Sunday. A variety of media might be used for this interview: video, audio, printed, or pictures and stories on a bulletin board. In the interview, include ways that the person has been active in the church and community. Share parts of their stories with the congregation and on the Celebration Sunday.
- Encourage older adults and other storytellers to share their experiences, perhaps around a certain theme (e.g., their faith journey, the history of their local church, etc.).
- Make banners and posters to inform the congregation of the celebration. The posters need not be very large, but mount them at obvious places around the church building.
- Involve older adults in planning and conducting a worship service. Invite older adults to serve as greeters, ushers, lay readers, and speakers on a Sunday designated as “Older Adult Recognition Day.”
- Use live flowers and plants to decorate the sanctuary on the Sunday of celebration and give these to older adults. Some may need to be delivered to homebound and residents of long-term health care facilities.
- Pin a flower or special color of ribbon on each older person. Be sure to make a statement in your worship bulletin to inform the congregation of the significance of the ribbon or flower.
- Send out special invitations to older adults for a Sunday of celebration. Make the invitations personal, and arrange for rides if necessary. If you plan to use ribbons to recognize older adults, send the ribbons and pins in the invitations. Hold a senior recognition dinner following the Sunday celebration.
- Plan a “senior expo” or resource fair on Older Adult Recognition Day that provides services and resources available to older adults in your community.
- Provide transportation for older adults so they are able to attend the Older Adult Recognition Day celebration. Provide respite care volunteers to stay with homebound people in their home so the primary caregivers can attend the Sunday celebration.
- Host a workshop for older adults on key issues like nutrition and wellness, safety, scams and frauds, advance directives, and personal finance.
- Find out the number of years in church membership (in any church) of each older adult, and add these together. Announce or publish the total amount of years as a collective heritage that we receive from older people.
- Plan a twenty-four hour period of prayer. Ask individuals to sign up for thirty-minute increments and either come to the church at a specific place to pray, or pray wherever they might be. Offer written suggestions for what to include in their prayers, such as: thanksgiving for the older adults and their contributions to Christ’s ministry, concern for health problems, government policies that may be pending, and ways that your church can be more caring and alert to the needs of older adults.
- Invite older adults to prepare and lead the children in a “children’s sermon” during the worship service on Sunday morning.
- Check and correct accessibility problems in your church facilities. Consider these points: acoustics; large-print hymnals, bulletins, and curriculum; lighting and hearing enhancements; number of steps to building or altar rail; handicap provisions such as parking, restrooms, doorways, and pew space for wheelchairs; sidewalks clear of ice in cold weather or bird seed after a wedding; uneven pavement or carpet; cushions on pews. Begin this before your week of celebration so that the completion can be celebrated.
- Learn how the needs of older adults are met in your community. Check on public transportation, adult day-care programs, assisted living and nursing facilities, meals on wheels, and accessibility of public places. Share what you learn with the congregation and search out ways to improve what the community offers.
- Develop a garden plot for older adults who enjoy gardening. Have someone else do the heavy preparation of the garden, but provide tools for older people to use in planting and tending the garden. Use flowers from the garden in the sanctuary, and use the produce from the garden for an intergenerational meal of celebration.
- Begin a homebound Sunday school class. Contact your local telephone company and arrange for a conference call during the Sunday school hour. The teacher will use a church phone, and the homebound people will listen in and participate from home by phone. If they have speakerphones, a caregiver can also participate. If there is interest, arrange for the continuation of the class by conference call. Often, individual donations can be solicited to cover the cost.
- Use social media to connect older adults with resources and one another.
Suggested Resources for Further Reading and Study
Aging and Ministry in the 21st Century by Richard H. Gentzler, Jr. (Discipleship Resources, Nashville, TN, 2008). An inquiry approach to individual or small-group study concerning aging issues and their impact on ministry.
An Age of Opportunity: Intentional Older Adult Ministry by Richard H. Gentzler, Jr. (Discipleship Resources, Nashville, TN 2018). An informative resource with a wealth of material to enable congregations to become intentional in ministry by, with, and for older adults.
Boomer Spirituality: Seven Values for the Second Half of Life by Craig Kennet Miller (Discipleship Resources, Nashville, TN 2017). A valuable resource for clearly understanding the unique spirituality of the baby boom generation.
The Church Responds to Abuse, Neglect, and Exploitation of Older Adults by Joy Thornburg Melton (Discipleship Resources, Nashville, TN 2012). A thorough understanding of Elder Abuse and a helpful guide for church ministry.
Don’t Write My Obituary Just Yet by Missy Buchanan (Upper Room Books, Nashville, TN, 2011). Using inspiring faith stories by older adults, the author invites the reader to learn and grow in faith.
Falling Upward: Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life by Richard Rohr (Jossey-Bass, San Francisco, CA, 2011). The author contemplates how our failings can be the foundation for our ongoing spiritual growth.
Retire to a Better You by Ed Zinkiewicz (Retirement-U, Inc., 2013). The author, through a series of helpful “retire to” books, this being one of them, provides encouragement, hope, and meaning for people in the retirement years.
Seasons of Caring: Meditations for Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregivers edited by Dr. Daniel C. Potts, Lynda Everman, Rabbi Steven M. Glazer, Dr. Richard L. Morgan, and Max Wallack (ClergyAgainstAlzheimer’s Network, 2014). A resource for spiritual support and meditations for caregivers.
Talking with God in Old Age by Missy Buchanan (Upper Room Books, Nashville, TN 2010). Through meditations and the use of Psalms, the author sensitively addresses the worries, fears, and frustrations of older adults.
Third Calling: What Are You Doing the Rest of Your Life? by Richard and Leona Bergstrom (Church Health, Edmonds, Washington, 2016). The authors provide readers an excellent resource that can lead to a “third calling” in life filled with clarity, hope, faith, and meaning.
www.acl.gov – Resources from Administration for Community Living
www.agingcare.com – Resource information for caregivers
www.discipleshipministries.org – Resources for adult and older-adult ministries
www.encoretnumc.org – Resources for church leaders for older adult ministries
ncea.acl.gov – Resources on Elder Abuse Awareness
https://www.nia.nih.gov – Research and resources on aging issues from the National Institute on Aging
www.re-ignite.net – A division of ChurchHealth provides resources for church leaders for older-adult ministries
www.prcli.org – Practical resources for churches